You raised some very good questions. I think that I have grown a lot over the year. A good friend asked me about it the other day and I said that on the whole I have had a good year. I have regained my sense of humour and am looking after myself better . I have better relationships with my Kids but the one important thing that is above all else.......................is
I CAN BE HAPPY WITHOUT W .
I guess the most important message in all this is that we LBS's need to learn to be happy with ourselves . The focus has to go off the WAS and the now broken R . It takes a lot of time but it is possible.