Right, deep breath. I could feel on the train in this morning that I was starting to panic about tonight and repeat my behaviour from Tuesday. So, that is not going to happen again. I am going to put my apprehension to one side because actually the bank account is going to be ok this month as h is putting his money in early. So if we don't come up with solutions tonight it is fine. I am going to repeat this to myself all day.
So the normal scenario for the conversation would be me saying
'So do you have the account open in front of you? I have looked through it and you have some personal direct debits coming out from it. Can you get rid of those and you need to put in �x to bring it up to zero and I will put in the same and it all should be fine.'
Ok, ok, I know now that that attitude must be really annoying to him. Anyone have any other suggestions? Other than me just staying silent I can't think of anything else but I think that might be annoying too. It would be good to get this problem sorted; it would ease a lot of my stress.
Any input/ critiques would be really appreciated as always
