i suppose if everyone here were in my shoes there'd be a lot of unhappy people Puppy i guess you would have me force myself to not care what she says or does (believe half of what she says, none of what she does, or do I have that mixed around ?) it's easy to tell someone to detach....i'm going out and doing stuff, for my son and I's benefit. i can tell you a month ago i was ready to rip my hair out i worried so much about everything. I've been clean for about 9 days when it comes to snooping around her emails and text/cell records. going strong there......... she still cares enough to ask how i am and to say good night, so she doesn't hate me.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
Puppy i guess you would have me force myself to not care what she says or does (believe half of what she says, none of what she does, or do I have that mixed around ?) it's easy to tell someone to detach....i'm going out and doing stuff, for my son and I's benefit. i can tell you a month ago i was ready to rip my hair out i worried so much about everything. I've been clean for about 9 days when it comes to snooping around her emails and text/cell records. going strong there......... she still cares enough to ask how i am and to say good night, so she doesn't hate me.
