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[Sugar and Spice]

(((Jeff))) my H is unwilling to give up his OW as well, so I also have no choice.

It sounds to me like your W is looking for something she is never going to find, happiness through outside things. I have to read your whole sitch and I'm sorry I haven't, but I have lurked here and there and until she is able to be happy with herself she will continue to chase the "dream/fantasy."

You sound like a great dad and a hell of a guy if you are giving her $$ to pay for Ls.

It sounds like you have and are doing a lot of GAL and creating a lot of memories and happiness with your kids, so good for you. I have started taking my kids to church too and it is really a good thing for them I think. I know it has helped my DS12, and helping my kids find faith will probably make this whole terrible ordeal worthwhile. I'm ashamed to admit that until this happened I hadn't taken my kids to church or anything. I think its been a good thing for us...sorry about the rambling. Apparently the wine is kicking in so I'll go. LOL.

Just wanted to add my somewhat muddled $.02.

Corey