It just made me start to wonder - where are the consequences for them?
LO, there are ALWAYS consequences. I truly believe that. It may not be today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year...ad nauseum, but you will always reap what you have sown. I always tell my kids that for everything that you put out there, you get it back 10fold. What goes around comes around. Sometimes them getting what they asked for is consequence enough...look at my sitch. LOL. H wanted an OW and got a Troll & a pocket version. Not trying to make lite of your sitch, but everyone has to answer at some time, the question is when.
(((LO)))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option