Diary of a Mad Hispanic Woman II...

[Valentine]

nlt, no, I am not D'd...been separated for almost 2 years and been going through this for 3 years...seems like forever.

So he lives in Austin, huh? My hometown...was there convalescing after my surgery and only came back on Monday. I live in San Antonio now...What is in Austin that he needed to leave? Was the OW from Austin?

LL (Latin Luvah---my moniker for my H--LOL!) always slept in the same bed until he left even though we had a guest room too. He now lives in the batcave...an unknown location but not really as he lives down the street from one on my uncles. He doesn't know I know that and I dont visit that uncle. anyhow it is literally ACROSS town...no chance of running into him...guess that was his way to trying to erase everything that was familiar. Guilt, I would imagine.

He took things out initially and then on the sly---like is coat and stuff like that ...but he still has clothes here and stuff. This seems to be something he has taken in a a loooong time.

Recently he says we need to talk about stuff (which I am assuming is the Big D talk). I don't bring it up and this is the first time he has brought it up...we'll see what happens...

I had 2 bubbies but Samson died suddenly in June...and I have Petunia and she is lonely...eventually I will get another dog to be a companion to her...

Good for you to get custody! The bubbies are better off with you as a parent...and I don't have any kids either...

So are you D'd?

Good talking to you...

Vali