I agree with NNP, don't let him know how you know. My H didn't find out exactly how I knew he thinks when & how I found out was getting into his work emails from his laptop computer he left here, but I found out long before that, my lawyer wanted proof & I had to send the emails to myself from his computer.
But if your H finds out how you know I believe it will make him more angry at this point.
You are right, focus on yourself & take care of yourself. If he files (which maybe he won't) you get a good lawyer & look after you & the kids. I had to, I didn't want to but I had no choice. I just hope my H doesn't hold that against me if he does come back home. I sure hope he does!
You hang in there, stay strong! I know it is hard!!!
