Wow Ms. Imp.. I have to concur with the others. You sound great.
I think taking your life into your own hands and not living in your husbands limbo land has done wonders for you!!!!!
I am SOOOOO proud of you!!!!!!!
I'm very excited that you may have found your future home... and I'm sure you'll have a new pet to keep you company, when you're ready! Gotta take it slow in building up a relationship with a new fur buddy!