W went to her L tonight, I gave her $ to cover cost, I wasn't expecting her to have already set a appointment because we haven't worked out her medical insurance, my company will not cover her after divorce, so I thought she would have posponed meeting until we decided how to handle medical insurance for her.
When I came home and told her I thought she would wait, she said, she would waive the requirement that I pay her medical for a year. So all she gets now is 1/2 my 401K and thats it. She is legally able to have the kids every other weekend, But that will cut into her social life.
She called after the meeting, because she wanted to know how D6 was, she isn't feeling well, nothing major, I asked her how the meeting went, she said everthing went ok, I said I don't want any suprises and she said there won't be any.
I don't know what to think, to easy, believe she is still in dream world, who knows, thought to myself maybe, she and OM are going to get married, I know she is in love with him.
I don't know, life moves forward.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = neve