cat, I knew you kind of dealt with what I am dealing with. Not fun. Its like H can have all of me that he wants (the house, the kids, etc), but then can live his single life whenever he so chooses. I need space!!
And yes, Beth. H and I were talking the other day about finances, and he said "You think I am selfish for wanting all this money". I said, "No, its half yours. But I do think you are selfish for wanting this divorce." He looked shocked, but its the darn truth. And thank for the reminder about the girls. I am lucky to have the girls, just as lucky as they are to have me. Thanks!!