Both D's are going to be going out of town with my Inlaws for the next 10 days and W is NOT looking forward to being alone. She has voiced to me that she is not happy about it, this will be the first time since they moved out she will truly be by herself. I am curious if she will reach out to me in this time frame. Had the financial sitch not reared its ugly head I had planned on asking her out but I don't think that would be a good idea in the scheme of things at this point.
Hopefully W will take the time to really do some sole searching as to what she wants her/our direction to be. She hates to be alone so don't know how she will fare, they have been her crutches so to speak in all of this, she will now be on her own to deal with it as I have been for the last 3 months...
I read this and I think the same in my sitch, but only the S is going away for the week, next week with MIL. Was going to take him early on my Sun, but now (I think since I put my foot down) isnt going until Mon. Last week he went to Vegas with me, and towards the end got the "i miss you guys" text but dont think I acted on it right, like it seems I never do with W.
But you cant have expectations of your W or its going to tear you up when she doesnt meet them. I know you probably already know this, and I do the same cause its really hard not to trying to get something we cant have.
Its sounds positive though, dont get me wrong. But like everyone says, we havent a clue what is going through their minds, let alone themselves.
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M-31 W-28 S7 D2.5 T 8, M 4 W filed 2-14-08 D on hold 3/08 D off hold 5/08 D to be final on/by Nov 08 Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful
