Smile at her (PMA)- YES!
Compliment her- HOW?
Be in control of my emotions....ie no anger, sadness- HOW?
Be happy to see the kids- HOW?
Offer words of affirmation....not all the time..but when the mood strikes...HOW?

i would write the specific actions here:
how will you do all the above? smile at her is action oriented- the others are not as specific...

does that make sense?

Pisces
M 31 H 32
M 7 yrs
S 5/10
Beginning
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