i have an ear infection and first thing this morning she asked how it was doing, so that's a plus. i'm not looking for her to come back this week or this month or next month or anything like that; i just want to know if she's thinking "hmmm this doesn't feel like the right thing anymore maybe ...." of course outwardly to me she is certain in her ways. any signals i could find ?
Buster, here's your short answer:
If you're searching your wife's words and actions for "clues," then you're not detaching.
