Cat, Just dragging through and thought I would take a glimpse at your sitch. You are doing marvelously well under the current distress!
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I couldn't believe she thought that! before you know it she'll grow up thinking I scared him away. Lord, I need more help, these little children pay attention to everything!
Yes they do....and thank god for that! They will surmise the whole situation in far less time than it takes us. Why? Because they don't have all the distractions that you are currently going through. They will realize that their parents were caught in a tailspin of lies and murky scenario's and mom was paddling her lifeboat out of it to save them. Who scared who by the way? It seems that dad is in the midst of waving at his own demons and that I believe is scaring everyone away. I only say this because I know from experience. Strangely, no one I believe needs a slap, just a nod of understanding and a hug of warmth. You are doing fine Cat! Aim high shoot low.....peace