Thats always nice. What did you say? Enquiring minds want to know?
I told him I was still officially married. God, was he gorgeous! Blue eyes, sandy hair, beautiful tanned skin, Italian accent... delicious. I never get approached by men that look like him. I seem to draw a lot of attention from the ex-convict crowd. I think it was a message from above to move on from my current life. Who knows. He was DELIGHTFUL. We chatted for awhile. I was at the bookstore looking at a photo book called "Stuff on My Cat" and laughing - that's what caught his eye. Maybe I'll bump into him again sometime.
Originally Posted By: Sugar and Spice
What about the kitties? Is there anyone who can keep them for you? I would love to offer, but Spike doesn NOT play well with others, even those of us that feed him and clean his nasty litter box! Ick!
My husband wants to keep my baby girl, and OM belongs to the neighbor up the street. It'll work out. I'll get over the heartbreak of missing my girl and OM.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
(plus I am AGAIN in love with an American, nice huh?).
Originally Posted By: Sugar and Spice
Sooo it is true then? You and Woog are an "item?"
I've been trying to read between the lines but haven't been able to figure it out either...!
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
Maria, Maria, Maria! You give me such strength. I am ready to take on the world. Guess what??? I am SMILING! My confident smile is bringing the wolves out, too. At lunch, a stunningly beautiful man asked me to have coffee with him. He looked to be maybe 28 years old! ;-)
This change in me has created a change in my h. He actually *seems* sad. I could be wrong, of course. Here's the kicker: why do I feel even a tiny bit bad for him only possibly feeling sad, when he hasn't cared about how I feel for so long now?
I might have a new place lined out - in the perfect neighborhood. Not far from work, lots and lots of trees and no noise! It won't be ready until end of August/early September though. I'm ready to spread my wings NOW. Things are moving forward.
Hey Girlie, just checking on you. You sound so good, like you're in a really great place emotionally. You should be proud of yourself.
xoxoxo Hugs.
p.s. always say yes to coffee with stunningly gorgeous men.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Wow Ms. Imp.. I have to concur with the others. You sound great.
I think taking your life into your own hands and not living in your husbands limbo land has done wonders for you!!!!!
I am SOOOOO proud of you!!!!!!!
I'm very excited that you may have found your future home... and I'm sure you'll have a new pet to keep you company, when you're ready! Gotta take it slow in building up a relationship with a new fur buddy!
When you get your new place I will come up and we will go and find you a new friend...maybe even a cat too. LOL!
You sound real good sweetie and I'm so proud of you.
As far as Kalni and Woog go...I think we'll have to wait for the mini-series. Hey, they don't do those anymore do they? Man, that was such an 80's thing. Damn I'm old! AHAHAHAHAHAAAAA
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I told him I was still officially married. God, was he gorgeous! Blue eyes, sandy hair, beautiful tanned skin, Italian accent... delicious. I never get approached by men that look like him. I seem to draw a lot of attention from the ex-convict crowd.
I wonder if this ever works the other way around and how would a guy know if a woman is an ex-convict?
What are you going to say if you see this gorgeous man again?
I told him I was still officially married. God, was he gorgeous! Blue eyes, sandy hair, beautiful tanned skin, Italian accent... delicious. I never get approached by men that look like him. I seem to draw a lot of attention from the ex-convict crowd.
I wonder if this ever works the other way around and how would a guy know if a woman is an ex-convict?
ROFLMAO!!! Mine is somewhere between convicts and carnies, so don't feel bad. Though we will have to beware if we ever get to go out together!
Kerry, there is a secret handshake! LOL.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Kerry, look for her tatoos, or hang out in front of the probation office.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Gotta take it slow in building up a relationship with a new fur buddy!