You sound like a two year old. There how is that. Maybe I'm part of your staff. Does that feel good. Passive aggresive behavior. I don't care what is not working or what you think is not working. I don't have to look at things in other viewpoints because I already have. If I formed my opinion on the matter and it is right than it's right. I think the comment is dumb. Do you want to be happy or do you want to be right?
I'm telling you if I'm not right I'm not happy. Simple!
Ian, I asked you guys not to talk with each other. Now knock it off.
Once again--how's that working for you, Phil? Oh, that's right, you said you don't care what is not working. So that means you don't want your marriage back. Okay, I understand. So feel free to continue doing what you're doing and keep expecting different results. That's usually quite an effective strategy.
So again--you're very right about your marriage, your wife. According to your logic, that must make you happy. I think we can all agree just how happy your posts sound.
Really, Phil, you just don't get it. You don't just need to be right--you need the other person to acknowledge you're right. And they're wrong. That automatically makes the other person feel resentful and like you have the upper hand. I have a feeling that you may believe it makes the other person grateful for your guidance, moral superiority and great wisdom. I can assure you that's not the case. There are a great many people in divorce court who can say they were right. A lot of right, divorced people. They don't seem very happy, though.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
