Yes, I've thought about that approach. I've thought about asking him to look me in the eye and tell me that all of this is just about him being miserable living with me..................but I expect he would say yes.
I know the right answer is that it doesn't matter right now. What I need to do is focus on myself. Make myself happy without him. If he wants to be with me after he "awakens" and sees the person that I am, then he will have to be honest with me and regain my trust. But the right answer and how my emotions affect me are two different things.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
