It has been a while since I posted, busy with kids and stuff, H is home after a 2 year affair, long story but he decided to leave her and come home, well not all roses and sunshine since then. He is depressed over her and moping around the house like his dog died. I am trying to be supportative, but I am hurting so much that it is hard to bite my tongue sometimes and let it go. He keeps saying he loves me and wants to work things out but give him time and things will get better. Logically I know that, but it is hard to live with sometimes. I am hoping and praying I will see some improvment soon with him. We have made some steps, talk a lot, he has stopped talking to her (much to his annoyance) and we are spending time together. But like all things hard and difficult, this is taking longer than I want
Me 40 H 41 T17/M14 Sons 7 and 4 OW - yes for over a year "I don't know what I want" 5/29/08