So last night after D11's softball game, H said to me, D says she is having a friend stay over? I say yes. He says and D15? I say she will be dropped off at home after her evening plans are over. He says can I have S9 for the night? I say yes. He sends TM about the fact that he thought that he was to have the kids both Mon. and Tues. nights----something he proposed over a month ago, before he had even found a place to move. I re-read the proposal, it is not clear that that is what he wanted. After several exchanges, the last one from me asking him to understand what I am going through...........the last one from him was that if this isn't going to work neither will anything else. I told him today, no more discussion of schedules via e-mail or TM. We have to talk. He still seems pissed. Is hard for me to keep my mouth shut about what I know of OW at this point....................
At this time, I'm thining that if I confront him, he will most definitely deny. I will tell him I know, but can't tell him how I know. He will use it as an excuse to get even more pissed off and he will file. If I keep my mouth shut, at least that will be off the table for now..........
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
