Just sending a hug, cos I read Sofaraways reply on Lost Phils thread and well you know the rules on "the Man's" thread.
I think it was the last thing you needed right now.
I sympathise will your need to get your H to admit to things.
I made myself so ill when my H refused to accept my word over something his OW had done. Especially when he had always said I was the most honest person he had ever met!
He eventually conceded I was telling the truth, but not sure it was worth my state of mind.It certainly didn't change anything but no I think it was worth it to me.
Take care.
Remember it takes one good person to do nothing for evil to prosper.