Hope4us struggle, part 7

[Hope4us]

Well WDID, she' never said she chooses me. All I've got from her is "we'll see how it goes". That's it. And that's the hard part. I exposed to his wife and that was the beginning of the end of the affair. The final nail was when I exposed to our kids.

Puppy, Her actions say she's trying. But what I need right now is for her to say "I want to try". That's it. Nothing more. We can go from there. But she won't even say that. She's told the kids she's willing to "hang around" and try, but nothing even remotely like that to me. And that's what sucks.

I gave her a print out that Lost posted on H4H's thread about Retro. Asked her to read it and let me know what she thought. Don't know if she's read it yet, but she did look at the first page. Then she went to the store.

So I'm thinking if she won't agree to go to Retro with me I'm just going to tell her I'm asking for a transfer back to our hometown as it seems obvious to me that she really has no intention of "trying" to make our marriage work. Problem is, she's one who thinks you shouldn't have to try in a marriage, it's either there or it's not.

I appreciate everyone's comments. I'll let you know how it goes.

And I'm not sure how to get you the info about FB without breaking DB rules. Maybe someone else will come along and tell you how.