If I'm not right than I'm not happy. Why should I waiver? Why should I not be happy. I think that is a really poor and sophmoric look on relationships.
Phil--you sound like a 2-year-old. Marriage and relationships in general are dependent upon compromise; it's inherent in their nature. Yes, we all have our deal-breakers that we can't compromise upon, but I think every little thing's a deal-breaker for you.
That sophomoric concept is part of marriage prep for Catholic marriages as well as many other denominations. Also for many marriage-healing programs. But I suppose you're RIGHT, you obviously have more wisdom in this than all the experts because you currently have a very happy marriage, right?
Let me re-iterate: would you rather be right or be happy? You're absolutely certain that you're right about all that's going on in your life right now. But are you happy?
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
