Sometimes this is a rollercoaster.. other times a storm at sea, a wildfire, whatever type of conflict comes to mind.
Emotional impulses are your enemy. Remove the wick from the candle.
As far as the finances go, get everything in order and show your thought process. A timeline and orderly paperwork takes the steam out of most situations. It is what it is. Work from the present.
Don't get yer pistons in a jam.
*hugs*
Hey Gypsy...
How right you are it's whatever conflict you can think of all rolled into one.
Interesting analogy, but I get it no wick/fuse nothing to light...
Funny thing is that I can tell her almost to the penny where it all went, but she isn't at a point to listen so I'm not gonna push it.