why do you think it is not MLC? it could be the addicting PLUS MLC. He sure has some nerve telling you about gf! jeez!
I think there is some MLC in there somewhere, but the infidelity isn't necessarily a sign of that as it has been in the picture for such a long time? Also if I think of it as MLC, then the possibility of H coming out the other side and back to me presents itself, which I find really confusing.
Him having gf and telling me about her is just a sign of how messed up he is - I mean what normal person would enter into a R with someone else when your previous 18 year R hadn't finished properly?! I have said to him had he considered a period of being single, for his own mental health? He's not strong enough to do that.
Mind you, what normal, self-respecting person would enter into a R with a man in his position? She knows he's separating. I worry for her, quite frankly.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08
