Sending positive vibes to my H!

[pisces9]

very true...i did go one one vaca at the beginning of all this but that was different...that is nice that we have so much more positive history now to reflect on...im sure he will miss me more and more...(vibes!)

OK- so one more thing:

my bro just told me that he told my H when he was here that i am really healthy, happy and confident and im doing really well.. and my H said to him well maybe its me...my bro said he wanted him to know that ive been doing really well..then my bro was nicer and they talked about his job, etc..also my bro pushed him away in a sort of guy gesture like look who the cat dragged in...

in a way im happy my bro was a bit aggressive w him..and thats why i left the room- in a way it makes me sad and scared bc it is could bring up his guilt...i know guys talk to eachother differently so thats why this seems ok too...