Don't apologise for being out there and having fun!
Your H lies because it makes his life easier on him. He thinks it will hurt you less/shut you up if he tells you what he thinks you want to hear. Trouble is, you want the truth, but he feels unable to give that. This is my take - I may be wrong. I got all kinds of crepe coming out of my H's mouth in my sitch.
Best advice I can give is try to let his lies go, let them float off, close yourself off to them. Don't let him get in the way of you having a darned good time!
And selling the house ... ha ha, passive resistence here, you'd love to but you're just soooooooooooo busy, ah, opps, you forgot etc etc. And..... remember it's a really depressed market for selling right now, maybe that could stall him a bit. First time buyers are saving their spare cash into ISA's so they have enough for a deposit when prices come down even more. It may not work, but it might just ..... delaying might make OW nag nag nag him more and more.
I'm glad to hear you don't feel angry though. Anger isn't really that useful an emotion. I used to think it was, it isn't really.
Take care - I need to email you some photos of the festival I went to at the weekend too ... it's very child friendly, in Dorset, maybe consider it for next year?
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
