wasn't really searching for more true/lies, but just realized a few other things that stbx lied about, I think he has has to be the biggest liar in the whole entire world, it baffles me, really, a white lie makes me feel scummy and he... {{{{{{{{{{shudder}}}}}}}}}}}}
He still whines to me about the woes of his townhome problems (buying a fixer upper, closing keeps moving farther away). I really want to tell him "dont' you have a damsel in distress/gf to talk to about this things?" grrrrrrrrrr!! he thinks he is being friendly and chats away, jeez, he just doesn't get it.
I really have to curb even the smallest criticism in front to kids, I was talking a bit po'd to stbx about something that I wastn too happy about doing and d5 asks me "why do you hate dad so much? you were yelling at him on the phone" om, that was worth a slap, I couldn't believe she thought that! before you know it she'll grow up thinking I scared him away. Lord, I need more help, these little children pay attention to everything!
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
