There are several things that I NEED him to do before I think we can live together again. For one thing, he needs to address and control his anger. He needs to get help for his OCD issues, if not medication, then some sort of therapy for it. Also, he needs to get right with God. I know that's not my place to judge, or to tell him about, but I've asked him to pray with me like we used to and he won't. One of my "conditions" is that we do a couples Bible study. Either one-on-one or as a group, and he won't because he doesn't thing I exemplify a Christian life, so he doesn't want church or anything esle in that regard.
It's not just moving in with him, it's selling our house and moving AWAY. Away from my family and my support.
Isn't it logical that issues get resolved, THEN you move in together again?? I can't live with the man he's become.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
