Wow! Dogma lists a ton of good points..... I have several thoughts... However, I will limit it to two for now...

First, I would highly suggest reading the book You Can Be Happy No Matter What: Five Principles for Keeping Life in Perspective. I found it very enlightening.

Second, I would highly recommend getting out and meeting people of the opposite sex. Go to church, the gym, a singles group, a cooking class, etc.......Even though you are probably not ready for a relationship, I personally found it helped restore my faith in women.

Some of you may not be ready to even ponder this. However, this is something I believe you must keep in mind. No matter what, please, please, please remember there are still good people out there who value relationships and marriage. No matter what your spouse did, good people still exist. When the time is right for you, I pray you are willing to open yourself up again.

I hope and pray you find all the best in your life.

Take Care,

NMD

Last edited by No_More_Dodo; 07/23/08 08:34 PM.
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