I hear you, I can't wait til stbx gets his own place and stops coming over to watch kids while I work (I have to wait 'til he comes, usually late, then see him some more before he leaves). I just want to extract him out of my life and not revive any more hurts/good/bad memories when I see him.
HOpe you get the refi done soon and he can go on with his life
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
