t he wants to put in the decree that I am unable to move out of state as long as S is living with me
I was told that legally stbx couldn't make me stay in my state (he suggested that too, to put there that I couldnt' move). In my state I only have to give him 30 days of notice, check the laws in your state, MrsH in NY (or NJ?) is going to court and the judge seems like is not going to let her move out of state, it varies. About the support, that's going to be a tough one.
None of out kids should be going through this, that really makes me mad, but I pray that my kids are able to move on like I did when my parents divorced, mine was more traumatic, I try my best to teach them about God and to have faith in him, I always tell them that is 4 in the house, them, me and Jesus, I'm glad they like church and have that constant in their life, the people there love them.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
