Hey Kelly Jo - Maybe you can give them a call ahead to tell them you want a refresher tonite and would rather not discuss the sitch. I did that with my family and they were pretty good about it.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.