I guess what I should have added in the post above is that about 6 weeks ago, when this whole thing started, I asked about holding hands and he said He thought that would be awkward.
That is why I am so unsure if I should try to move things along or wait and see if he will be ready on his own.
We are getting along fine most of the time, No yelling or arguing. It can get tense sometimes, just because I feel like I am living in limbo land though. He is just unsure if he wants to work on the marriage or if he wants a separation.
Thanks again, Shelby
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