You should be proud of the way you handled yourself after his comment about still filing. You didn't fall apart like I'm certain he expected! You're getting it!
Being invited to the games is a BIG DEAL! He doesn't mind his coworkers seeing you there. That's huge! About a month ago, h invited me to the police assoc picnic. I thought that was big. One thing that was slightly unconf. was talking to wives that I hadn't seen in a long time and having them ask me what was going on with h and I. Probably looking for some desperate housewife gossip, and I shrugged it off saying "I don't know. We're trying to work on things." Then, I quickly changed the subject. So, be prepared for some questions if you see couples you used to know.
Oh, and look CUTE at the games. Seriously, have some clothes that show off your good features, and add some new sunglasses, cute shoes, etc... It's awesome when his co-workers comment to him about what a hot wife he has...
Keep the course, you're doing well.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
