I am so sorry to read your situation. I thought about you all last night. I've read all of this thread, though not your previous threads.
I think it is admirable you are taking the high road with your parents and in-laws. You are far more calm than I could ever be BUT perhaps you want to put the gloves on and start making some noise. Not to be difficult but you really, really need to get a laywer (soliciter?), start documenting, as best you can, your husbands behavior and get yourself in a position to make sure you and your kids are taken care of financially and materially. You need to protect yourself from the dept he has run up. Based upon his history, it seems fair to expect he will be every bit is dishonest in seperation/divorce as he was in marriage. Don't buy the kids first crap. If he was putting the kids first, he would not have repeatadly gone down the path he has chosen.
My heart is with you.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
