I've been following along & catch myself saying "Yes, yes, don't put up w/ that cr@p anymore, go girl go."
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His life is an out of control mess, so what better way to feel better than to control others, us especially. I have also accepted it for the most part and I'm done with that. Just like his questioning my whereabouts, thats done too.
The consequences of his actions will soon be all too plain.
Originally Posted By: dry_heat (((((((Corey)))))))
Don't let him suck you in! By acting like nothing happened, he is trying to hide from himself, I think. He does not want to face HIS issues. HIS affair, HIS gambling, HIS potential child. Detach yourself from HIS crap! Stay out of it!
This is right on. By trying to be his "friend" I have actually just allowed this nonsense to continue. He has had the best of both worlds (cake eating...major, cake eating!)and something has got to give. If he chooses OW and that R, then he can have it...all of it. Let her deal with his tantrums and whining
I've allowed the same nonsense & seeing what you're doing inspires me. Thanks for that!
