I'm not sure what more I can or should be doing. I am warm and friendly whenever he comes over. I touch him on the arm or his hair.. but I don't generally initiate any hugs or kisses (so that was a 180 in the above paragraph from me). I recipricate (sp?) his hugs and kisses.
H knows I love him.
Keep on doing what you're doing W2G, he does know you love him, stepping up the displays of affection may take his job away from him & he probably wouldn't like that.(Being from Mars )