It's done, she's filing either today or tomorrow. We had a long conversation last night that she began "I think its time we do get divorced so we can all move forward..." (Interestingly in all of the conversation she never said she wanted to get divorced only that she though we needed to so we could move forward and heal.)
Well I don't have time to post further here at work, so I'll update later. I will say last night's conversation was one of the most intimate conversations she and I have ever had, ever.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa