OMG, what an idiot he is. Was he always this controlling? HE informs YOU what you're going to be doing with your daughter that day??? I wouldn't put up with that crap if my spouse WASN'T having an affair. What, does he want to drag you out the front door by your hair, too??
Neanderthal.
Puppy
Puppy, his mom is a control freak and so is he. In many ways its actually gotten worse since he left. He didn't have to be quite so blunt about it while he was in the house, far more subtle when you are a part of the situation. His life is an out of control mess, so what better way to feel better than to control others, us especially. I have also accepted it for the most part and I'm done with that. Just like his questioning my whereabouts, thats done too.
The consequences of his actions will soon be all too plain.
Originally Posted By: dry_heat
(((((((Corey)))))))
Don't let him suck you in! By acting like nothing happened, he is trying to hide from himself, I think. He does not want to face HIS issues. HIS affair, HIS gambling, HIS potential child. Detach yourself from HIS crap! Stay out of it!
This is right on. By trying to be his "friend" I have actually just allowed this nonsense to continue. He has had the best of both worlds (cake eating...major, cake eating!)and something has got to give. If he chooses OW and that R, then he can have it...all of it. Let her deal with his tantrums and whining about not having any money, and boo-hoo woe is me, I'm a gambler, I have made a mess of my life...wah, wah, wah. Here let me call a Wambulance for you...baby.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
