Hi Rob,

I think its unfair that your W continues to be verbally abusive to you by text message!!! She is still very angry it feels to me. Her response "too late" was a good example. Well, hello, Mrs RTL...so your H woke up and got a clue and stopped working so hard, well good for him! THats great! Thats a positive thing if he is realigning his priorities.. yes its 'too late' - too late for you as you left him, but not too late for him, or his R with his D, or any future R he may have with an OW !!! Why cant she see that? She sounds very arrogant right now (or just angry). She makes me mad! She already left you, why does she continue to send you nasty emails????

I dont know what you can do about that. Did your DB coach suggest anything? There were so many positives a few days back too.

There are eclipses coming up which may affect your sitch (Lunar - 1st Aug and Solar - 16th Aug), because I remember she asked for a D (??) on the last eclipses in Feb.

Glad to hear you sounding good though!
Ali x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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