Ok I didn't fall apart but said a few choice words under my breath regarding H as I signed away my marriage. My L said that they had discussed with my H that I wouldn't be able to refinace the house anytime soon and yet here he is pushing for that. So he is still asleep at the wheel.

Funny I just can't seem to call him my ex yet. I guess he is my H until he isn't.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory