Perhaps you should point out to the MC, that part of dealing with D, is how you and your H can get closure on his A and abandonment of his family, and move forward as amicable co-parents. And, until he speaks the truth, you will find it hard to trust him regarding D or finances, and certainly not be able to be on friendly terms.

Your MCer doesn't sound like a very good one ... certainly seems to be taking sides, and not tackling H on his 'honesty' issues.

Take care, HM, this is going to be a bumpy ride, I think.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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