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[Neilh23]

[quote=Bworl]

I think what you're really saying is that you'd like your wife to see you and smile because she's happy that you're there.

So the question is, what do you need to do in your interactions with her that would make her HAPPY to see you? And maybe that involves also considering what kind of behaviors from you make her unhappy to see her.

I've been thinking about this...and i want to make sure i'm on the correct path here, so my knowledgeable advisors....

Goal #1: I would like my wife to smile when she sees me because she is happy to see me.
To accomplish this I need to:
Smile at her (PMA)
Compliment her
Be in control of my emotions....ie no anger, sadness
Be happy to see the kids
Offer words of affirmation....not all the time..but when the mood strikes...

does that seem like a more action oriented goal?