Mulesqb - Still alive and Kickin'

[mulesqb]

FIB - Honestly, my IC brought up the idea. She said if there is no intimacy - how does it make me feel that we are still in the same bed. I said I didn't like it. It seems my IC is challenging me to make my W make a decision. My IC thinks it may get ugly but that my W will come back. I don't know what to think anymore.

Doesn't seem like it is a good idea to challenge an MLCer.

But I will say that I don't regret telling her that I think she needs to see a psychiatrist. Somebody had to say it to her and i think her IC is going to be a very slow process.

I have tried to detach since and she is the one pursuing these heavy convos. I agree, I have said my piece to her and now I am just here to listen. I like the thought about POWER. I will keep that with me. What a tumultuous 24 hours it has been!