So, sounds like it's over for you, at least for now. Well, I'm sorry to hear that, but I do believe that you have a great life ahead of you.
As for the being friendly, at lot of the WAS do that. I think my XH did it for a couple of reasons: (1) butter me up to get what he wanted in the D and (2) he can't stand it when people don't admire him, so he wanted to win me back in that way. i used to think it was baby steps, but not anymore.
You sound mentally healthy and strong, much more so than a couple of months ago. I'm glad for that.
Love, Nicola
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