Here you are in your twerplishness and beauty. Forums are forums. You get more hits in Newcomers, a different level of understanding and autonomy in the others.. though "Surviving the Big D" is full of partiers. What might be my next hop.. though it would be more symbolic than anything else.
Just remember.. it's easy to put down your spouse right now. It's better to build up yourself. Just forget all the names I'm calling mine, though.. alrighty? It's a phase I'm going through.
I'm off to see my counselor shortly (see you didn't even have to remind me!).
I'm sorry to hear you're OM and Kumquat will stay at the house, but you never know what the future might bring. Starting anew in a place that is your own is becoming more and more appealing to me.
My daughter is howling in the background 'talking' to her cousin. I should go check, being the loving mom I am.
*hugs*
PS.. I think I read somewhere the other spouse feels such relief once it's out there.. that they do relax. Strange world, interesting people and bewildering aliens.
