lwb, it does sting a little. Last night he worked really late and I was in bed when he got home. He asked me how I felt and I said "I feel fine" in a really upbeat way. He hasn't asked me how I feel in so long. I try not to read more into it other than he just feels a sense of relief that I've accepted our situation, but a tiny part of me thinks maybe he has a shred of regret. Too late now. The ball is rolling and I'm OK with it.

Mike, you're such an angel. Thanks so much for your friendship.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence