Thanks Julia & Pisces. P, that's a really good suggestion to tell him he can call me and I'd love to talk later if he wants to. Send me some good vibes for later on, guys!
BTW, P, I live in Nor Cal, too!
JWS, isn't ESSM a great movie?! I love it so much, I bought it a long time ago and have watched it since this thing happened, oh, like 10 times. It just goes to the heart of the matter of what we're all dealing with here, our spouses looking only at the bad memories of our Rs. But if you take those away, like clearing away cobwebs, what remains is precious and sacred and...rare.
And don't worry, women very much notice when a guy looks great. ABSOLUTELY positively. Right, girls?
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
