Trying not to count my chickens!

[Nature Girl]

Upside,

I am so sorry to hear about your XH and his W and their emails to you. I think you are doing the best thing by not responding to them. It sounds like they try to make themselves feel superior by making you the enemy or bad guy - don't take the bait.

Can you talk to your C about how to deal with them in a constructive way (a way that is best for your kids)? Maybe focussing on this XH/kids issue and working on coming up with positive solutions (if not with the C, aren't there books about communicating with and dealing with difficult people?) can take your mind off where in the mlc process that you are with your H. Then just enjoy the time (without any expectations) you do get to spend with your H.

(((hugs)))