Wow Upside. I can't believe the bashing continues after so many years! Do exactly what you are doing by ignoring them. Sounds like THEY are the ones with too much time on their hands.

Glad to read about the progress from your H. I actually think it might be a good thing that you don't care about the M all that much at the moment. Focusing on it too much can cause you to have expectations, not to mention drain you of all your energy. It's good to take a step back and just let things happen once in a while.